Missing alumni
Every time there’s a class reunion, the class officers send out a list of people from the group who they’ve lost touch with. Well, I have my own list of people that disappeared from my life, who I wonder what happened to.
For instance, Lavinia, a cute girl from my kindergarten class. Her family moved to Phoenix. I don’t even know her last name.
In elementary school it was Pam Hartley. We really liked each other in second grade, but she never returned to school after that. I guess she only moved one town over, but I never saw or heard from her again.
At the top of my list is Ellen Rubin. A year ahead of me in school, she went up to high school, but by the time I got there her family had moved. I’ve often searched, but never found her.
Speaking of junior high school, there was my music teacher, Miss Lerer. She was a porky little thing when I had her, but between one year and the next she lost a ton of weight and turned cute. Alas, I recently saw her obituary. Several of my old teachers have died, including a couple of the best teachers and best people. But I wonder what my old teachers Miss Ciannavei and Mrs. Gelpke, both of whom I think are still living, are up to nowadays.
High school friend Paula Nahabedian’s family moved away. Sue Wald is out there somewhere, and I owe her an apology. Virginia Peters. Alda Glover. Where are they now?
Even college friends have disappeared: Glori Feinstein, Lori Oshansky, Abby Hacker, Alma Souza, Cindy Goozh … And from the beach, Maya Laurinaitis and Beetle Donati, and the folks with whom I did summer theatre.
I wonder what become of the folks with whom I attended Phillips Academy’s Short Term Institutes. I wonder where my old BESGL friends are.
And old work friends, and friends of friends – Peter Paige, Brenda Ortiz, Chet Shuman, and everyone from H&S; Judy Reardon, Bob Jordan, Gwen Wharton, Susan Boulanger, and many other old Globe friends; and Christine and Debbie from Long Island. All of them live in the pre-social networking era. All of them are lost to me now.
I hope you’re all well. I miss you. I think of you more than you might expect.
